An Army veteran deploys structure and tough love to help a rescue dog learn how to be a well-mannered member of her family.

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When Karla walked into Humane Society for Tacoma and Pierce County in November 2022, she had no idea she was about to meet her next family member. Homer, a Black Mouth Cur, was about two years old at the time. He was full of energy and had a way of making himself known.

“We didn’t pick him, he picked us,” Karla says. “Well, mainly he picked my wife. He loves me, so I am pretty much a bonus for him, but my wife is his ‘main squeeze,’ so to speak.”

Adopting a pet was not a new concept for Karla. Growing up with animals, she always felt that a family was more complete with a pet. The Army veteran discovered Pets for Patriots through the humane society’s website. And she knew it was the perfect program to help bring a new companion into her home.

“Absolutely look into it,” she advises other veterans. “There are so many older pets that need love.”

Superhero moment

Karla’s military background played a role in shaping her views on discipline, resilience, and companionship. She served in the Army in the late 1990s and separated from service before 9/11.

Most of Karla’s service took place in Arizona and South Korea. She worked as an electronic technician with military intelligence.

“I won’t expound upon that,” she says, reflecting on the nature of her role.

A most memorable experience from service happened during basic training.

“One of the confidence courses had a particular wall, dug into the ground, slanted towards you, and about five feet high. No footholds, nothing around to step on – it was purely a ‘run at it, jump, and haul yourself over without assistance’ situation,” Karla recalls.

It was a formidable challenge for Karla; both she and the wall were five feet tall.

“I took a running leap and fell back down unsuccessfully. My drill sergeant then pulls out the ‘I can’t do it’ step stool for me to use. Mind you, I am 20 years old, invincible, stubborn, and no one else has had to use the stool in my platoon.”

Karla approached the wall and set the stool aside. It was just her against the wall.

“With a head of steam, I launched myself up and over the wall with some clearance to boot,” she says. “That was the day I felt like Captain America.”

Tough love

The Army veteran’s determination would serve her well throughout her life. It proved critical to help Homer adjust to his new home and routines, too.

Homer came with his own challenges – as all rescues do. He had a fear of getting into vehicles. And his enthusiasm could sometimes be overwhelming.

But with patience and a little tough love, the big dog adjusted to his new home and family life.

“He has already stayed twice at a pet lodge for vacation purposes, and is socializing well with other people and animals,” Karla shares.

“He had a fear of getting in the vehicle and has conquered that as well.”

Structure and discipline were familiar to the Army veteran. Homer, still young and full of energy, needed some of that structure.

“He can get a little overzealous,” she admits.

“We do plan on taking him for some obedience lessons to smooth some of the rough edges.”

But for all his challenges Homer brings more joy than anything else.

“He is bigger and taller than me on his hind legs. When I get home from work he jumps up, puts his paws around my neck, and gives me a kiss and a hug.”

“We are just in love with him”

Life with Homer is not without its sacrifices. Karla and her wife know that having a pet means planning ahead.

“There are times when we wish we could just pick up and go for the weekend without worrying about Homer, but his bonuses outweigh the negatives,” she says.

“Finding a place for a big, loud, young dog that needs fencing and no cats is not cheap or easy. Just something to keep in mind and budget for.”

Despite the adjustments the Army veteran would not change a thing. Homer has become a beloved family member, and as a result of her experiences Karla advocates for Pets for Patriots.

“My family and I are very grateful for this program and have been promoting it to everyone we know,” she says.

Homer’s journey from shelter dog to beloved pet has been transformative. And for Karla and her family, the love and loyalty he brings have made every challenge worth it.

“Thank you so much for assisting my family and me in adopting our new family member,” she says.

“All of the financial aid and support have been crucial in these financially difficult times. We appreciate this program and all the staff behind its success.”

Homer found his home, his family, and his place. And in return, he has given them his boundless love, energy, and devotion.

“We are just in love with him,” Karla says, “and he with us.”